Since 2017, I have been called back to what was then the Region of Fiji, now known as the Region of Oceania, to coordinate the CLM in Fiji until 2021. In 2022, I was assigned to St Pius X Parish in Raiwaqa, Fiji, to focus on youth and women’s ministry. In December last year, I returned home to Tonga for my home vacation, intending to spend time with my elderly parents and siblings. Christmas Day created cherished memories while ensuring my parents felt loved and cared for in the comfort of my youngest brother's home.
We kicked off with a family lunch gathering on Christmas Day. My siblings and I worked together the kitchen, preparing our parents’ favourite meals. The aroma of homemade ‘umu’ from the underground oven and the roasted pig filled the compound, and we all gathered around the dining table, sharing laughter and stories. My mum lit up as she recounted the funny mishaps from our childhood, and my dad chimed in with his anecdotes, bringing back a wave of nostalgia.
On a quiet day, we sat under the tent, ready for lunch. Each of my sibling’s families chose a unique colour for family photos with my parents. While we waited, we engaged in deep conversations about life, family, and dreams. I cherished these moments, realising how important it was to listen to their stories, wisdom, and experiences. As the week went by, I noticed a renewed spark in my parents. The holiday at home brought us closer and reminded us of the simple joys in life. By the time the week ended, we felt rejuvenated, with hearts full of love and laughter.
A familiar energy hummed at my youngest brother's place, a symphony of creaking floorboards and laughter echoing in the air. It was my first Christmas home vacation where all nine siblings, now scattered across the country, except for one of my sisters who was in New Zealand, descended upon our youngest brother's house. Mum and Dad, their hair a little whiter and their steps a bit slower, were the anchors of this chaotic, loving gathering.
Before lunch, we surprised my parents, with each of my siblings wearing their family colour for pictures together. After taking photos with each family, we sang, danced, and teased one another. My parents laughed until they cried, their joy infectious. We enjoyed a heartfelt lunch, expressing our gratitude for their love and support.
This family holiday was not just a break from routine; it was a beautiful reminder of the importance of family, connection, and the joy of spending time together in peace and harmony. I realised how much this time meant to all of us. It wasn’t merely about the activities we participated in; it was about the bond we strengthened as a family. My parents felt cherished, and we all departed with our hearts full of love and wonderful memories, eagerly anticipating our next family gathering.
Thanks to the online apps that keep us connected with family and friends, I can engage with them as a family. This is one of the best ways to stay in touch with our long-distance family members. My sister and her family in New Zealand were able to join us online via Messenger.
My brief time on home holiday allows me to rest, recharge, and renew my energy and focus. Spending time with my family and friends is emotionally refreshing and supports me in many ways. These connections give me a sense of belonging and encouragement as I prepare to return to my mission, and we make sure to pray for each other no matter where we are. 'Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails.’ (Proverbs 19:21).
Columban lay missionary Naanise Mo'unga who is from Tonga and currently working in Fiji.
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